tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8401355923091588637.post7148204883765546147..comments2024-03-06T03:19:26.910-05:00Comments on The Emperor's Old Clothes: Racism is so unfashionable.Fluff Chancehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17757091504806772512noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8401355923091588637.post-74427410061256916652013-08-29T16:43:43.395-04:002013-08-29T16:43:43.395-04:00Thank you for writing this. I have experienced thi...Thank you for writing this. I have experienced this for my entire adulthood and although I know it's commonplace for many men of color, one sometimes feels like their experience is unique and that others won't understand. <br /><br />As a gay black man of Latino heritage, I often find myself being judged as an outsider by my some of own kind for the way I speak or the way I style myself. I am either the "gringo" or not "truly black" as some would see it (although this is not the norm, I have heard it often enough in my life). Naturally, I may face some form of ostracism from some people of color when they realize that I am gay. I often have the idea that, among my own people, I'm perceived as a bit of a special case. It makes me forget that in the eyes of the great 'white' world, I'm just another black man with all the stereotypes associated with it.<br /><br />It's the little 'slaps on the face' like what you listed that bring it all back home for me: the defensiveness of white women on an elevator or even on the street or the odd treatment in stores. There may be the odd time when I've heard someone utter 'faggot' when I walk past them and I have learned not to let it bother me in my almost 40 years on this planet. But being feared? It just never stops hurting.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8401355923091588637.post-22080644378460618302013-08-29T16:42:35.588-04:002013-08-29T16:42:35.588-04:00Thank you for writing this. I have experienced thi...Thank you for writing this. I have experienced this for my entire adulthood and although I know it's commonplace for many men of color, one sometimes feels like their experience is unique and that others won't understand. <br /><br />As a gay black man of Latino heritage, I often find myself being judged as an outsider by my some of own kind for the way I speak or the way I style myself. I am either the "gringo" or not "truly black" as some would see it (although this is not the norm, I have heard it often enough in my life). Naturally, I may face some form of ostracism from some people of color when they realize that I am gay. I often have the idea that, among my own people, I'm perceived as a bit of a special case. It makes me forget that in the eyes of the great 'white' world, I'm just another black man with all the stereotypes associated with it.<br /><br />It's the little 'slaps on the face' like what you listed that bring it all back home for me: the defensiveness of white women on an elevator or even on the street or the odd treatment in stores. There may be the odd time when I've heard someone utter 'faggot' when I walk past them and I have learned not to let it bother me in my almost 40 years on this planet. But being feared? It just never stops hurting. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8401355923091588637.post-19546033601008872882013-08-22T04:11:44.307-04:002013-08-22T04:11:44.307-04:00aaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8401355923091588637.post-69739237763134717142013-08-21T02:17:49.003-04:002013-08-21T02:17:49.003-04:00This is cool!This is cool!Tiffanihttp://bestrowingmachinereviews.us/2013/08/07/about-rowing-machine/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8401355923091588637.post-40902833637240123972013-08-08T23:07:26.939-04:002013-08-08T23:07:26.939-04:00Dear Surprised Anonymous,
Despite your impression ...Dear Surprised Anonymous,<br />Despite your impression of me or my story, life rolls many ways for all of us and none of us are immune to its vagaries. Until you've walked a mile in my Gucci's I doubt that you could imagine what my life is like, or anyone elses for that matter.<br />Thanks for your comment.Fluff Chancehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17757091504806772512noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8401355923091588637.post-9769472795622523842013-08-08T19:23:55.676-04:002013-08-08T19:23:55.676-04:00I am a little surprised by your blog. I myself hav...I am a little surprised by your blog. I myself have crossed the street or felt my back go up if I encounter black men, but never the well-dressed or affluent though many crimes are committed by the well-tailored to be sure. Thuggish looks, matched by thuggish behaviors, are another matter. In equal measure, aggressive, poor whites can just as easily offend with little effort (they too would likely be tailgated in stores). When the rich and the famous, and someone who summers in the Hamptons, start piping up about perceived slights, I think it is time for the truly slighted and harassed to be rise up and take offense.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8401355923091588637.post-23341159026914154542013-08-01T13:22:09.578-04:002013-08-01T13:22:09.578-04:00
DUBAI !!!!!!!!!!!!!
Love you little fish !<br />DUBAI !!!!!!!!!!!!!<br />Love you little fish !spirouhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13828625370175105329noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8401355923091588637.post-70696738443948089052013-07-30T15:25:40.516-04:002013-07-30T15:25:40.516-04:00Dear Fluff, I am sorry you have been subjected to ...Dear Fluff, I am sorry you have been subjected to humiliating things like this. There is nothing like racism...really hard to wrap my mind around many happenings regarding TM case!<br />Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16102553594171697015noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8401355923091588637.post-25485411642923432132013-07-29T10:23:19.186-04:002013-07-29T10:23:19.186-04:00Thanks for sharing. This is needed.Thanks for sharing. This is needed.Joyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749027762662012409noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8401355923091588637.post-91444746338617799322013-07-28T17:29:30.502-04:002013-07-28T17:29:30.502-04:00As the spouse and mother of Black men, it still to...As the spouse and mother of Black men, it still took me years to realize what they have to go through, and I am sure I still don't know it all. Add to the car door "click" the car alarms going off (without anyone touching the cars) in Queens! It's sickening.Dianehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02284975856767312813noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8401355923091588637.post-41797717169653608212013-07-26T15:08:32.789-04:002013-07-26T15:08:32.789-04:00Actually, Fluff, it's a GREAT idea for you to ...Actually, Fluff, it's a GREAT idea for you to share your experiences with the readers of this blog (no doubt many of whom are white females). <br /><br />Soft bigotry is bigotry. Just because many white people in the fashion industry call themselves liberal, vote Democrat, donate to causes, etc, doesn't mean they don't engage in offensive stereotyping and profiling. <br /><br />(I'll go you one further; ever walk into Intermix on lower 5th? The security guy there is black and HE follows me around EVERY SINGLE TIME I've been in there. That store is 12' x 10' if it's an inch and WTF am I going to do with a size 2 leopard romper? But doesn't he follow me around anyway?)<br /><br />One simply has to rise above it. Or engage in a little profiling oneself. My brother has a pretty spot on joke: Why do white women in slasher flicks always walk into the dark house? The same reason white women in real life always walk out into the middle of traffic: they're entitled to. : O<br />AChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04456811515163886597noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8401355923091588637.post-42030774587798311832013-07-26T14:55:26.540-04:002013-07-26T14:55:26.540-04:00At least you have admitted to the sting of racism ...At least you have admitted to the sting of racism that you have felt, while other's like conservative pundit Allen West and his ilk claim they've never witnessed it. <br /><br />That's a part of our lives here in America, whether we warrant this behavior or not. What a bunch of liar's.Divalocityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00273194312285528274noreply@blogger.com